SHE TRIED TO KISS ME! The Importance of Vibe… And a little push!

Sexy-girl-iOS-7-Wallpaper-3Are you giving off the right vibe?

When I say the word vibe I don’t mean how well you vibe with a woman. What I’m referring to is YOUR VIBE. The amount and type of energy you give off when your out in the field and in your everyday life!

Having a great vibe can sometimes do all the work for you and may even get you laid.

During my everyday life while I’m running around the streets of NYC taking care of business I’m always giving off a wonderfully attractive vibe to the world. I’m in a great mood, I make everyone I come into contact with laugh, have a certain swagger to my walk and always look great!

Needless to say, throughout my day I’m always getting smiled at by women and usually approached in one way or another!

I can’t even begin to tell you how many times a woman starts talking to me for no apparent reason except that she’s obviously curious about me and my vibe. The other day a woman in line at the coffee shop behind me decided to randomly buy me a cup of coffee and then asked me my name and what I did for a living. I have to admit, she was actually pretty cute. But this is normal for me. At least once a day this sort of thing happens.

And it’s all because of my VIBE!

Just the other night I was out with a student and we were taking a break from approaching and just hanging out talking, laughing and just acting silly! My vibe at this point in the night was superb! And out of nowhere this really cute chick with super short hair just comes up to me with her friend, grabs my face and says… “I’m going to make out with you!” My student was in amazement because I didn’t have to do anything. I knew it was because of the vibe I was giving off. I seemed approachable, fun and interesting!

I said to her… “No you’re not! I’m a shitty kisser and I’m not wearing deodorant.” She said… “Let’s find out” and grabbed my face and went for it! I turned my face and she got some serious cheek! I then told her in a flirty way that she was acting way too aggressive and that she was scaring me! This drove her crazy and she dragged her friend over to us and said… “If you’re not going to kiss me, kiss her and if you like the way she kisses, you’re going to love the way I kiss”. It could have easily turned into a threesome make-out session…. These girls wouldn’t leave me alone for about 15 mins… I basically had to tell them that I was out with my friend who I haven’t seen in years and that I had a serious GF to finally peel them off of me.

The fact that I wasn’t needy and pushed them away drove them both crazy. Women are just not used to a man not being into them or giving them what they want. It’s like cocaine to a woman. A little push when you know you have her goes a LONG WAY. It turns into a challenge for them and women love a flirty challenge!

My student was immediately attributing their aggressiveness to the fact that they were drunk and liked my fashion sense but I knew it was different and I explained what really happened. Neither of them had drinks in their hands, the night was still young so they prolly weren’t drunk yet and neither of them smelled like booze. They were just in a heightened state of energy, having a great time and attracted to the vibe I was giving off at that moment.

Needless to say he learned a lot and what I have been trying to tell him finally sank in!

The fact that I was able to playfully handle these women and do some push-pull made their sexual state rise even higher to the point that they weren’t even thinking. They were just acting on pure emotion. Which is what women will 99% of the time do.

Women are highly emotional beings and when they are living in that place of mind, all logic goes out the window! As I’ve said a million times before. Women are STATE junkies! Her dominant emotion at any given moment always takes precedence. And we are in the business of state management when it comes to women. We manage their states of mind and use those states to achieve whatever purpose it serves us and them.

I guess if this post is drive a point home it would be to make sure that the vibe you’re giving off at any moment will almost certainly dictate the way life treats you. You always get back what you put in!

As always, if you have any questions or want to leave a comment, please do! I love hearing from you guys!

And if you interested in getting some coaching whether it be real life or on the phone please feel free to call me whenever you want!

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Gp

 

First Impressions….

When you walk up to a woman that you find attractive and want to bring her into your life, the very first thing you’re going to need to do is make a great first impression. An awesome first impression can not be understated. But, you guys don’t need me to tell you that. I think it’s quite clear that first impressions are crucial to your overall success and first impressions are hard if not impossible to prove wrong. Continue reading

I WANT TO (fill in the blank)!!!!

WANT: Verb (Used with object);  To feel a need or a desire for; wish for: to want one’s dinner; always wanting something new.

Want- is the one word I hear from guys from all across the pick-up community more than anything else. They say things like, I want to sleep with 9’s and 10’s, I want to start going out more to meet women, I want to open better, I want to stop being scared to approach women, I want to learn Day Game, I want a threesome, I want, I want, I want, I want, I want…….. The list goes on and on. Could there possibly be an end to any of this? Chances are, if you are saying “I want” to any of the above than you are more than likely saying “I want” to ALL of the above and then some! Continue reading

To kiss or not to kiss. That is the question.

You’ve approached a beautiful woman, she’s attracted to you, you get her phone number, you run some killer text game and get her super excited to meet up with you for a date, she actually shows up for that date and doesn’t flake, you’re on the date and you’re dying to shove your tongue down her throat but… Do you or don’t you?

Excuses start to arise in your head as to whether or not she may want to be kissed. You can hear this voice in your head saying, “What if she’s not ready, or what if I get rejected?” Continue reading

Explosive list of some crazy things you can say to a woman to attract her even more…

Here’s a short little list of some flirty and playful things I love to say to women that I have approached. All the things I am giving you today are some of the exact same things I have given to my students who have paid for some one-on-one coaching but for free.

I guess you could call them banter lines, teases or flirty statements that will  get her more attracted to you, throw her game off, let her know you’re experienced with women and at times definitely confuse her to her the fullest. All of which are great things to be able to do. Have some fun with them but use them sparingly. If you find yourself talking to a hottie and you decide to drop one of my lines on her, do just that… But ONLY one line and in the rare circumstances, maybe two! But before I give you some of my best lines I’d like for you read just a little bit more. Bare with me! Continue reading

AWESOME ROUTINE FOR GETTING MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF PHONE NUMBERS FROM HOT CHICKS…. MUST READ!!!

I love this routine for getting lots of phone numbers from hot ass chicks! I can’t believe I’m actually sharing this. Brad even told me NOT to share this little routine! It might be something you’ve heard before?! It might be something totally new to your ears! It’s seriously the best routine ever and it’s been left out of every so called “routines book” in the PUA marketplace. Only read more of this post if you’re truly ready for the most awesome routine ever posted!

Here’s how the routine goes. Follow it to the letter. It will not fail you! Get out your paper and pencils. Copy this down now!   You don’t want to forget this when your out in the field and…… I just might take this post down in the next few days! Here it is… I even highlighted this routine in RED so you can’t miss it… Continue reading

Ho Ho Ho… Merry Pick Up!

The countdown to New Year’s has begun, a brand new new year is on the horizon and have you fulfilled last years promises about becoming a better pick up artist, achieving your dating goals, approaching more women and bettering yourself in all areas of your life yet alone preparing for new set of promises/ New Years resolutions that may or may not be fulfilled?

It’s gonna be 2012 in just a few days. You’ll have 365 new days to fulfill your dreams of seducing beautiful women. AND… Let me tell you that 365 days is a very long time. A lot can be done in 365 days. Let’s do a little math here… Shall we? Good! Let’s talk about approaches! Continue reading