What is LOVE? One of the most imprtant posts by me you’ll ever read!

bikinichickHere we go…. Another hot topic in the wonderful yet mysterious world of male/female relationships and dating ideologies.

In a nutshell…. Love in the minds of women is conditional and love in the minds of men is unconditional and this is where most break-ups and arguments start. It’s a lack of understanding on both genders to fully understand or empathize with the others genetic coding and their long and short term needs.

Let me start off by quoting a man by the name of Briffault. In may ways, he was a genius and summed up female behavior as truthful and eloquently as a caterpillar turning into a butterfly. He cuts through all the bullshit and gets right to the core in just a few short sentences.

BRIFFAULT’S LAW

The female not the male determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where female can derive no benefit from association with the male no association takes place.

Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.

Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit.

A promise of future benefit has limited influence on current/future association with the influence inversely proportionate to the degree to which the female trusts the male.

I would suggest that you re-read that again and again until you can almost commit it to memory. In just a few short sentences Briffault sums up the male/female relationship conundrum and not just certain relationships between men and women but ALL relationships. Don’t be fooled. It IS the truth!

SO… Let’s talk about love and how this law pertains to it.

Like stated above, “Love is conditional in a females mind”. And as Briffault said, if there no benefit to the female than no such association shall take place.

And what are the benefits that most females attribute to being with a man? If you’ve been studying dating advice you should be able to answer this easily. This is where we get the term DHV from and now you should know why that is so important to incorporate it into your game.. Demonstrations of higher value. For those of you who are unfamiliar with DHV’s, I’ll break it down to you.

Here’s a short list of the most important DHV’s

Pre-selection (which means other beautiful women want you)

Leader of Men

Successful

Motivated

Fearless

Confident

Healthy

When you meet a woman you will want to convey demonstrations of higher value so that she will instinctively come to realize that you are a suitable option for her to have sex with. Even though it is just an act of sex or it may be a casual romantic experience that you share with her, on a deep genetic level she will need to know that you are still a man that can and will provide for her and a potential baby with the benefits that she deems necessary for her(the baby is just a tool that she will use to keep the man or the source of his benefits) survival. Women are always screening for this in the men they chose to be with and even though it may be just sex, on a subconscious level she will need to know that if she was impregnated by you that she will be safe for the next 9-months and thereafter.

Whether you’re an Alpha male that will ensure her that if she had baby with you you will be of an exceptional gene pool or the fact that you may be Beta-Provider she will still be on the look out for any benefit that she can derive from you and if you have the benefits that she needs as well as the fact that you’re an attractive man to her, she will take a risk and have sex with you.

Women will confuse LOVE for benefit! And they will have no idea that is what they are doing.

When it comes to serious long-term relationships, a woman’s screening process will become even more acute as you get to know each other better. She will carefully look at who you are as a man, she will test your masculinity at any chance she can get, she will study what you can offer to her both short and long term and decide from there if she’s willing to become monogamous with you. Because if a woman chooses to become monogamous with you, she would have already carefully weighed what you have to offer versus what the other men have to offer that she is talking to or seeing at the same time and make her decision from there. She will also always weigh you and what you are offering against anyone else that may step into her life. Yikes!!!!!!

If they chose to become committed to you than that’s a great thing in most cases just so long as you weren’t put into the Beta provider category. The Beta provider is THE WORST THING FOR A MAN EVER! This means that even though you may be a Beta-provider you still beat all the offerings at that moment and only that moment. The problem is that Beta man who has won the woman will stay Beta because that is the behavior that actually won the love of his woman and will be reluctant to change his habits out of fear that he will lose the woman.

Why??? Because at the time of commitment towards a monogamous relationship she has CONVINCED herself that you are what she truly wants AT THAT TIME AND THAT TIME ONLY and it will 100% not be what will captivate her heart and keep her sexually interested for life! Only an Alpha male with great provider traits will keep a woman emotionally and sexually satisfied for a long period of time and even he will have to keep his game at his best.

This is why ALL nice guys get dumped, divorced, left for broke and cheated on. It is because he was not being the man in the relationship, she was. He allowed himself to ONLY be there for her bidding and women will tire quickly of this type of man. They get bored very quickly because he allows himself to be walked on and fails her many tests over time. This type of guy was good on paper! And when a guy looks good on paper women will convince themselves that he is a real catch. It also gives them bragging rights to their friends and family. Essentially, it will raise her value while still providing the benefits she deems necessary.

Women need a man to be a man. When she assumes the role of the man it will start to repulse her and at the same time make her lose all respect and attraction for you. The same goes for the Alpha male who then turns Beta for her sake. She broke you and because she broke who you are, she would have lost attraction and respect for you. How could an Alpha man who won her heart be broken? She will see this and when she does, it will be almost impossible for you to keep her interested in you.

Women, think they want one thing…. They think that if they can change the Alpha male into a Beta that she will love you even more, be happier, more secure but this may be true in the very short term but over any extended period of time the opposite will be true. The truth is that what a woman says she wants and needs to feel more secure in a relationship is not true at all.

How can a woman be secure with a man that she can change so easily?????? If she can change you and your character than what does that say about you in other areas of your life and the benefits that you are capable of providing for her? This is why she will continually test you. She wants to make sure that you are who you say you are.

You see, the Beta provider role will ensure her that you will at all costs do her bidding and cater to her female whims at the drop of a hat. She will feel safe with you and love the fact that you “give” her so much more than the Alpha/Bad Boy. Beta-providers are also usually viewed as monogamous which means his benefits will not be shared with another woman AND WOMEN HATE SHARING THEIR BENEFITS. He is a win for her. Hence… “I married such a nice-guy” or He’s soooo nice” or “He’s so much nicer to me than my last boyfriend”! Nice in this sense and only this sense means BETA. Please don’t confuse the two. An Alpha, a real Alpha male will still be nice to his woman.

On a surface level to her, she will THINK that’s what she wants and needs(usually because she has given up on Alpha/Bad Boys because of their lack of certainty within the relationship and the fact that she hasn’t found an Alpha that will stay faithful and who still treats her like a lady) but over time, like Briffault said, once that benefit has been provided, that promise of future association will become null and void unless more benefits are provided… And the vicious cycle of her demanding more from her man and him giving more will slowly eat away at her attraction for him because she will slowly start to lose respect for her chosen man that doesn’t have or show any balls and once again she’ll find herself on the prowl for Alpha sperm either while she’s still in the relationship or she will discard the Beta and hunt for another Alpha. Either way, if your a Beta provider, you lose. You lose her, your dignity, your masculinity, your money, your heart and in some cases your children.

You will only want to provide benefits to her if she is doing her part in the relationship. You have to work for her love and to be successful in dating and long term commitment and she will have to work for yours! That is the magic balance. You can not give freely. She will only give to you if you are giving to her and the same is true about you. You should only give to her if she is giving.

So… Where am I going with this??? I’m not really sure but it seems like a point to start to explain what you can do to maintain a woman’s interest for the long term and to tell you that you should give up on trying/hoping to have a woman truly understand and sympathize with what it is like to be a man. She is basically incapable of really understanding a mans dilemma.

As a man, you will want to always be at your best and if you’ve chosen to be with a woman than you need to fully accept these facts and be prepared to work for her loyalty and attraction for life. Is that a bad thing??? I don’t think so, especially if you love the woman you’re with and want to spend your life with her.

Female Hypergamy(dating a higher value man other than yourself) and Briffault’s law are both things you will need to study and master to keep your woman into you and only you.

In my relationship, I’m always trying to do my best. I do my best for me first and foremost but as I’m improving my life, my mind, my finances, my body, my understanding of women and life I know that it also puts me into a category of elitist men, the 2% of men in the world that will captivate and motivate a woman to stay with me. The more you better yourself the more capable you are of keeping women seriously attracted to you. It’s a win win situation.

I’ve been the Beta provider and have got destroyed women. Can I blame them or hate them? No, I can not. I accept all the blame for my past failures and have extensively studied them and learned from them. I have no ill feelings towards the women who have hurt me in the past. they were only doing what comes natural to them and because I didn’t understand the game or how their minds work, I lost. I lost their attraction, respect and hearts along with a shit load of money. At the same time, I gained a unique perspective. A perspective that most men do not have and that is worth it’s weight in gold. I am among the 2% of men.

Think about it…. If you are amongst the 2% of men out there, how hard do you think it would be for your woman to find someone better? It will be almost impossible. She would almost certainly have to try out 98 other men before she will run across someone of your caliber. And if you can make her feel the most sexually alive that she’s ever felt, giving her explosive orgasms while maintaining your Alpha Masculinity, you will have a woman that loves you and only you for life. It will be almost impossible for her to find someone to take your place. And if for some reason you did break-up, I promise you that she will be comparing EVERY other man against you for LIFE! She will always wish they were you! It will torture her for life. She will never be able to fully get over you! I promise you that.

In the so called Manospehere or Red Pill mentality there are a lot of men hating on women because of their innate nature, their solipsism and hypergamyrous (Is that spelled correct?) behavior and that is where and why I think they will fail to have in their lives the women that they truly want. They want women to be something they are not.

I come form a place of acceptance. I know exactly what I’m getting into with a woman especially if she’s beautiful and used to men catering to her. Do I like it???? HELL NO! Does it frustrate me at times? HELL YES! But I will never be able to change them and nor do I try to change it. I accept that is what they are, take appropriate actions and because I love to have a beautiful woman that I can call my own on my arm, I accept the fact that if I don’t do my best in my life and with her than she will leave me at some point. Just like I will leave her at some point if she’s not doing her best for herself, me and the relationship.

As a man, you have the power to walk away from an unhealthy situation while knowing that because you are bettering yourself and that you are the prize that you can easily replace her. The same CAN NOT BE SAID FOR HER. This may sound mean but it’s the truth, you can replace a woman a hell of a lot easier than she can replace you!

I hope you enjoyed this post…. I would love to hear your thoughts and commentary as I’m sure there is so much more to be said. I could have written another couple of thousand words easily about this topic but I think I covered some major points.

 

 

 

DAYGAME WORKSHOP IN NYC!!!!!!

bootcampwomanHere it is…. My first DAYGAME WORKSHOP in almost a year!

In my last post I announced that I was back in action with a vengeance and that AttractiveApproach.com will officially launch on the first or second week in May.

Today, I’m letting you know that I will be hosting a 3 day DAYGAME workshop on MAY 9, 10 and 11th…. 3 FULL DAYS of learning everything you will ever need to know about how to seriously attract women during the daytime.

And if you sign up early, you’ll get in at almost half price! 917-797-2445

BUT THERE’S A CATCH!

I only have a few spots available. I will never teach a workshop with 20 guys again. I won’t even teach a workshop with 15 guys. I am purposely keeping this very small and I’m being very selective with who I allow to join.

I want to be able to make sure that EVERYBODY who signs up gets very personalized attention with me and is serious about taking his game to the next level.

ONLY men who want to bang hot chicks and who are willing to push themselves to become more confident and attractive will be allowed to attend!

If you’ve ever thought about learning Day-Game or taking your existing skills to the next level, here’s your only chance! On Friday May 9th, 10th and 11th I will be teaching my daytime dating secrets right here in NYC and it will probably be one of the most legendary workshops ever. You will NOT want to miss this as I am sure it will go down in PUA history.

People have been asking me to do a Day-Game Bootcamp for years and I’ve finally decided to do it to coincide with the launch of AttractiveApproach.com

Usually, I only teach my secret day time dating secrets weapons and techniques to students in a One-on-One setting but now you will be able learn from me in a small group setting with your peers for a fraction of my personal coaching price.

Basically, you get the very best coaching and in-field experience for almost half of my one-on-one normal price.

I love Day-Game. Can I say that one more time??? I LOVE DAYGAME. I’ve met some of the most beautiful women on earth during the day. Women that were so HOT they almost made me nervous to approach them! hahaha

Over the years I have become arguably one of the worlds most recognized Day-Game experts. My skills in this area are legendary and unparalleled as I am sure you already know. I am the pioneer of the Same-Day Lay.

I invented and perfected a style of Day-Game that the rest of the world lives by and follows. You will not find anyone better than me in this area…. GUARANTEED!

You can try to find someone better but to be honest… That person has probably learned from myself, literally! I have coached countless other coaches from some of the biggest dating companies out there. No lie! They all seem to come to me, privately of course or when I hang out with them for the first time they ask me to help them with any problems they may be having with their game!

Day-Game is amazing. During the daytime you will meet women that you would never see in a bar. A different caliber of woman. Party girls in mini-skirts with high-heels are fun but typically I prefer a woman who isn’t always looking to get drunk, go out every night or do drugs.

I love a hot, smart, intellectual woman who can bring value into my life and I’ve yet to meet a woman like this in a bar or club.

I’ve met some amazing women at night, don’t get me wrong but not even close to the type of women I’ve met at Whole Foods, the park, a book store or just walking down the street towards me.

Day-game is amazing and you should never underestimate its power and how it can lead to a fulfilling life.

You will learn how to generate instant explosive attraction with women in EVERY type of Day-Game setting there is. Whether she is sitting on a park bench, walking down the street, shopping in a store, reading a book, etc…

YOU WILL LEARN- How to overcome any approach anxiety you may have, properly approach her, generate attraction, build a connection and get a date with her. I will hold your hand, side-by-side every step of the way.

Generating attraction and building a deep personal connection the she will remember for years to come are the keys to making Day-Game successful and you will learn all of those skills.

YOU WILL LEARN- How to generate explosive instant attraction with women in stores, the park, the street, walking towards you etc…

YOU’LL LEARN- How to eliminate flakes.

YOU’RE GOING TO LEARN- ALL of my top secret routines.

YOU’LL DISCOVER- How to properly stop a woman walking down the street and get her to give you her full attention.

I WILL TEACH YOU- How to build a deep connection with any woman you want and that art of having a great conversation.

YOU’RE GOING TO FINALLY LEARN- What it takes to eliminate approach anxiety from your life. Imagine what your life will be like if you had ZERO approach anxiety!!!!

YOU WILL RECEIVE- A perfect routine-stack designed by me that will be perfect for YOU! (This is very personalized to each student). With a routine stack, you’ll always have the prefect thing to say to her when you first approach her.

I WILL HELP YOU develop an amazing story that will get her laughing and even more attracted to you!

YOU’LL ALSO DISCOVER HOW to finally have FUN while you’re out IN THE FIELD approaching women.

I’M GOING TO TEACH YOU- How to sexualize your interactions and make sure you’re NEVER in the friend zone again. This includes, kino, sexual banter and escalation!

I WILL SHARE WITH YOU- The top 3 reasons why most men never get good at meeting women during the day.

I WILL ALSO HELP YOU GET OVER ANY STICKING POINT WITH WOMEN YOU MAY HAVE.

The list goes on and on!!!

Here’s a recent review from my last bootcamp just a few weeks ago!

“Anyone who has a chance to do a workshop with Glenn P should not think twice. Jump at the chance to transform your dating life in the space of 72 hours. Glenn P is a bona fide Master Pick Up Artist. The term is bandied about lightly, but Glenn is the real deal. This is a man who cut his teeth on 400 approaches a week, and whose identity is unmistakeable in the field. He has done such a painstaking and thorough job of developing an attractive and unique identity and of honing his pickup skills, that I could totally envision him doing same night pulls night after night. During the workshop, however, his focus is not on pulling girls for himself, but rather on helping his students. He will spend hour after hour with you and he will put you into more sets, have you do more approaches, than you’ve probably done in your entire life before that. He will pick apart every approach you do, and by the end of the workshop, you will be far more aware of what your real strengths and weaknesses are in the field. His assistant has great game, and will also be relentless about getting you to approach and to work on your sticking points. The feedback they provide is honest and right on the money. To sum it up, if you have doubts about how good Glenn’s game is, stop doubting. He will demo any kind of approach you want to see. If you have doubts about whether you will get to spend time in the field and do lots of approaches, forget about it: you will do so many approaches that you won’t be able to keep track of them all. Glenn P’s workshop is not the typical community seminar that is heavy on classroom seminars. You will get more openers and routines than you could ever use, but more than anything, your classroom will be the field, and you will spend a weekend constantly approaching and improving, and finally understanding all the stuff you’ve been reading about. In a word, Glenn P’s workshop is transformative. Don’t miss it!” – Christian

Here’s what David Shade had to say about me…

I can highly recommend a one-on-one with Glenn. All evening long he was totally focused on watching me in set. After every set he would explain to me exactly what was going on, exactly what the girls were thinking, where I blew it and what I should do next time. Glenn is SO insightful. Glenn really cares about the success of his students. I can honestly say that Glenn is a phenomenal coach. I am so grateful his help!

Like I said… This workshop is gonna be insane.

Stop waiting around. More than likely you’ve already spent your Winter walking around and NOT approaching women. The time is now! This is your big chance to learn Day Game from one of the worlds best and meet the woman of your dreams.

Sing up now…. This will sell out FAST!

CALL ME FOR PRICING, QUESTIONS AND AVAILABILITY.

917-797-2445
Glennpuanyc@gmail.com

SHE TRIED TO KISS ME! The Importance of Vibe… And a little push!

Sexy-girl-iOS-7-Wallpaper-3Are you giving off the right vibe?

When I say the word vibe I don’t mean how well you vibe with a woman. What I’m referring to is YOUR VIBE. The amount and type of energy you give off when your out in the field and in your everyday life!

Having a great vibe can sometimes do all the work for you and may even get you laid.

During my everyday life while I’m running around the streets of NYC taking care of business I’m always giving off a wonderfully attractive vibe to the world. I’m in a great mood, I make everyone I come into contact with laugh, have a certain swagger to my walk and always look great!

Needless to say, throughout my day I’m always getting smiled at by women and usually approached in one way or another!

I can’t even begin to tell you how many times a woman starts talking to me for no apparent reason except that she’s obviously curious about me and my vibe. The other day a woman in line at the coffee shop behind me decided to randomly buy me a cup of coffee and then asked me my name and what I did for a living. I have to admit, she was actually pretty cute. But this is normal for me. At least once a day this sort of thing happens.

And it’s all because of my VIBE!

Just the other night I was out with a student and we were taking a break from approaching and just hanging out talking, laughing and just acting silly! My vibe at this point in the night was superb! And out of nowhere this really cute chick with super short hair just comes up to me with her friend, grabs my face and says… “I’m going to make out with you!” My student was in amazement because I didn’t have to do anything. I knew it was because of the vibe I was giving off. I seemed approachable, fun and interesting!

I said to her… “No you’re not! I’m a shitty kisser and I’m not wearing deodorant.” She said… “Let’s find out” and grabbed my face and went for it! I turned my face and she got some serious cheek! I then told her in a flirty way that she was acting way too aggressive and that she was scaring me! This drove her crazy and she dragged her friend over to us and said… “If you’re not going to kiss me, kiss her and if you like the way she kisses, you’re going to love the way I kiss”. It could have easily turned into a threesome make-out session…. These girls wouldn’t leave me alone for about 15 mins… I basically had to tell them that I was out with my friend who I haven’t seen in years and that I had a serious GF to finally peel them off of me.

The fact that I wasn’t needy and pushed them away drove them both crazy. Women are just not used to a man not being into them or giving them what they want. It’s like cocaine to a woman. A little push when you know you have her goes a LONG WAY. It turns into a challenge for them and women love a flirty challenge!

My student was immediately attributing their aggressiveness to the fact that they were drunk and liked my fashion sense but I knew it was different and I explained what really happened. Neither of them had drinks in their hands, the night was still young so they prolly weren’t drunk yet and neither of them smelled like booze. They were just in a heightened state of energy, having a great time and attracted to the vibe I was giving off at that moment.

Needless to say he learned a lot and what I have been trying to tell him finally sank in!

The fact that I was able to playfully handle these women and do some push-pull made their sexual state rise even higher to the point that they weren’t even thinking. They were just acting on pure emotion. Which is what women will 99% of the time do.

Women are highly emotional beings and when they are living in that place of mind, all logic goes out the window! As I’ve said a million times before. Women are STATE junkies! Her dominant emotion at any given moment always takes precedence. And we are in the business of state management when it comes to women. We manage their states of mind and use those states to achieve whatever purpose it serves us and them.

I guess if this post is drive a point home it would be to make sure that the vibe you’re giving off at any moment will almost certainly dictate the way life treats you. You always get back what you put in!

As always, if you have any questions or want to leave a comment, please do! I love hearing from you guys!

And if you interested in getting some coaching whether it be real life or on the phone please feel free to call me whenever you want!

917 797 2445

 

Gp

 

I’M BACK!!!!!! And I have some BIG NEWS!!!!!

BIG_NEWS1Wow…….. It has been SO long since I last wrote a blog post. To all of you who were kept waiting and wondering if I had fallen off of the earth for good…. I would like to say SORRY!!!!!!

Life has been crazy this past 6 months and I’m sure most of you could understand or have even been in the same position yourselves! Sometimes you just need to put certain things on the back-burner so that you can fully concentrate on what life is giving you in that moment.

Even though, I wasn’t posting or writing articles for you guys to read and learn from, this blog was always in the back of mind. Day after day I was telling myself that I can’t wait until the time is right to start writing again! I missed it SO MUCH!

AND THAT TIME IS NOW!!!!!!

In about 2 to 3 weeks from you’ll be able to find me at AttractiveApproach.com Continue reading

One thing you can do right now to instantly change your results with women…

tomWhen it comes to learning “Game” and becoming the ladies man you’ve always dreamed about there’s one thing you can do immediately that will 100% get you better results. As a matter of fact, I would say that it is the easiest thing to change about your game! It’s instant and full proof! I bet by now some of you are wondering what this little tweak in your game could have such a profound result is? This one thing, this one change can even get you laid without even having to open up your mouth! Continue reading

Has women’s entitlement issues squashed masculinity once and for all???

Bad DateI just love the title of this post… but the question is a serious one that needs to be addressed.

Let me ask you this… Have you ever been out on a dinner date and when the hostess escorts you and your girl to your table your left with a decision about where you “should” sit and where she “should” sit? Has that same hostess or host made you follow them to your table and they have already chosen where the man should be seated and where the woman should be seated? I bet you have and if you haven’t realized this is happening, GO ON A DATE TONIGHT AND SEE FOR YOURSELF. Continue reading