WORDPRESS, put a block on my blog! I was essentially locked out of this account until I “mailed” them all of the information that they requested! What a bummer and what a nightmare that was! But, they just allowed me access a day or two ago and now I’m back in action and ready to have some fun again, are you?! I hope you didn’t miss me too much. Let’s keep our fingers crossed that it doesn’t happen again!
Let me ask you this! Is the text message picture I posted above romantic in any way shape or form?
Guy: Give me a blowjob
Girl: Can you be a little more romantic?
Guy: Give me a blowjob in the rain.
On the surface, most people if not all would love to analyze that relationship in a negative way because that is what we’ve been taught all of our lives. It’s obvious. He’s just a chauvinistic pig who degrades women and only cares about himself, isn’t he? Women have been told that boys shouldn’t talk to them that way and men have been taught that they shouldn’t talk to women that way, correct? I know that was the case for me when I was growing up! But then… WHY DO WOMEN LOVE IT SO MUCH WHEN WE SPEAK TO THEM THIS WAY????? It doesn’t make sense!
But, truth be told! After reading that text message exchange, I think it is quite obvious that they are a seriously happy and perfectly content couple, more than likely in love or on the road to a serious relationship that will last the test of time! 100% guaranteed!
THAT WOMAN LOVES HER MAN!!!! No doubt about it!
What exactly is romance and what should it look like? Let’s see what Webster’s Dictionary says it is:
ROMANCE: A feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love. Ardent emotional attachment or involvement between people; love: They kept the romance alive in their marriage for 35 years.
How weird that in every definition of romance I came across while writing this I NEVER once read that – Expensive dinners, Flowers, Gifts, etc., were part of the romance factor!
Now, do those sweet things boys and girls do for each as a token of their love and esteem for one another play an integral role in romance? You bet they do but so does being the MAN, the true man that she desires and has longed for her entire life. Remember the above definition… “Excitement and mystery”.
Excitement and mystery to a woman is like heroin to a junkie! They need it, they can’t resist it, they can’t walk away from it and they can’t ignore it no matter how hard they try! And being the type of man that would send his girl the text massage from above does exactly this for her. He makes her feel alive and truly smitten. She showed that text message to her friends and they all wished that they had a man like him in their own lives or wished that their boyfriends/husbands were more like him! He gives her excitement and mystery but obviously also knows how to make her feel the excitement she is looking for and craves so desperately from a man she has decided to devote herself to. Women do not walk away from a man like him for another man or lack of excitement! Women walk away from men who no longer excite them or who have lost their Alpha Male qualities and turned into submissive Beta Boys.
Women will actually learn to resent the man that was once Alpha and then turned Beta. Yes-ing her to death or not having anything you could call your own, I.E. making your while life about her will actually make a woman run faster than just about anything. Letting her control you 100%, which is what women will instinctually try to do is the quickest way down the break-up trail!
Women will try to dominate men every chance they get. They will try to change us form who we are to what they want us to be(on a surface level) and 9 out of 10 times they are not even aware of this and what they’re doing. But on a subconscious level they know exactly what they are doing. They’re screening for the Alpha male. Women will constantly make sure throughout the relationship that you are in fact who you say you are. Women need to know on a primal level that they will be protected and cared for. So, they will systematically TEST us to make sure we can do this for them and they do this by trying to change us or win the age old struggle for dominance. Lose this struggle completely and you lose your woman!
Dominance is NOT a bad word. Dominance is a display of personal power, that’s all.
As we are learning the art of attracting women and relationship management it is important to play your role as a man as best as possible. She deserves this and you should want to give that gift to her but without losing yourself or compromising your values.
In every relationship there will always be a struggle for dominance! ALWAYS! If a woman can dominate her man, it’s GAME OVER. You might as well call your best friend and give him permission to sleep with your girl before she makes that happen behind your back!
This is all quite odd!
We’ve been taught through society, our peers and media that the way men should act towards a woman is to do anything he can to make her happy by doing everything for her. What’s the saying??? “Happy wife, happy life!” Now, I agree with that statement fully! If you’re with a miserably resentful woman, your life with her is going to be hell. BUT, there are more ways than one to make her happy and feel alive that don’t include being her little YES MAAM slave. Are you with me so far? Flirting, teasing, randomness, unpredictability(in a responsible way) and just being a true confident Alpha man are the true keys to a lasting relationship and a happy life with any woman.
And how come I’ve never heard a saying like “Happy Man, Happy Maam?”
A relationship should consist of two people who make each other happy in the TRUE ways that we need to be happy.
So good to be back! Hope you enjoyed my first post in a long while. But don’t worry, I’m here to stay.
Please chime in and let me know how you feel about what I’ve said. I’d love to hear what you guys are thinking and PLEASE let me know how your Summer has been!!!