What does being a great pick-up artist mean? I think this is the million dollar question for most men. How will you know when you’re finally good at meeting women from a cold approach? What is it all about? It took me a few years to figure it out for myself but when I did I had a smile on my face for days!
Being a great pick-up artist isn’t about being to pick-up ANY women that you see. Let’s face it… Anyone claiming that they can do this is full of shit and there are a few guys out there making this outrageous claim but not me and not anyone I know personally. Although many of us have come to believe that this is what life is like for most PUA coaches and the like. Nothing can be further from the truth.
Becoming a great pick-up artist isn’t about being able to sleep with any women you see, it’s about creating the chance to sleep with any woman you see! Being a great pick-up artist is about not screwing it up with ANY woman you may have the chance to sleep with. It’s about being able to have sex with EVERY SINGLE woman you have that chance with!
Learning seduction and becoming a Master Pick-Up Artist is about creating that chance with every woman you decide to talk to. When you study pick-up advice and start to implement it what you are doing is creating many chances you’ve never had with women. Those chances I would like to refer to as generating attraction. When you generate attraction and interest in a woman you now have an amazing chance to get to know her more intimately. Once you know her more intimately you will hopefully be able to seduce her into bed with you and not mess things up beforehand!
What learning pick-up does is it gives you the CHANCE to sleep with any woman in the world that you choose to approach and you will know you’re great at seducing women when you don’t fuck up those chances you’ve created for yourself! Are you with me???
When I was first learning pick-up I screwed up more chances than I would like to admit to but I stuck with it. I figured out where I was screwing up and when in the interaction I was screwing it up. I was relentless in figuring out why I was messing things up with women. I was able to generate attraction in just about every woman I talked to but I was not able to seal the deal. Why? The reasons are too numerous too mention but I persevered and always kept my eye on the prize. Over time I figured out “How not to screw up the chances I created for myself.”
Now when I see a woman that I would like to get to know better, no matter where I am or where she is, I know that I have a very good chance to sleep with her. It makes feel so empowered! I know that if I can create that chance I will almost NEVER screw it up. I say almost because sometimes even I mess it up. It’s very rare but it happens. Nobody is perfect!
So…. get out there this Summer and create some chances. If you see her, approach her! You’d be surprised at just how many women you’ll be able to meet and sleep with if you just walk up! Put one foot in front of the other and GO! If you mess up your chances to sleep with her… Oh well! There will be countless others to meet just moments away!
How many chances will you create this Summer?
Let me know your thoughts and feeling about what I’ve said… I love hearing from you guys. It keeps me inspired to write and share more with you! Hope you guys are having an amazing Spring! I’ve got some amazing stories I’ll be sharing in the weeks to come… Some of them are… let’s just say, very interesting!