Ok, like I’ve said before, I’ve been meeting women in real life and on-line but I think I have without a doubt come to the conclusion that I love real life/cold approach pick-up so much more than it’s online counterpart but it’s been fun working on all areas of my game. And… I’ve been having lots of sex from the two.
Here’s how it all went down with the on-line millionaire. This super rich, Beverly Hills older woman sent me a wink from an online dating site. Getting winks are great because it’s sorta of like a warm approach. For those of you who are not familiar with a warm approach, a warm approach is when a woman is interested in you already whether it’s through social circle, a book store, bar, lounge or the like and you approach her. Basically she is already warmed up to you. When it comes to online dating getting a wink tells me that she’s interested in me and wants to get to know me so when I respond to her because she has initiated the conversation I will typically flirt just a little, be extra normal and do some qualifying… But this one woman in particular wasn’t the normal type of woman. She’s super rich, hot as all hell, mega high value and has a wicked, sarcastic sense of humor that is truly hard to match.
Her screening process for weeding out undesirabe men has been perfected to the fullest. There was literally no room for error. One slip up and she’ll walk, say good-bye forever. She’s older and knows exactly what she wants and what she’s looking for and will not tolerate anything else in her life being that she has so many options.
Here are the exact emails in the order in which they were sent. Study them. I spent a lot of time replying to her and really figuring out what was working and what wasn’t.
Me: (after the wink)
Cute, sassy and with just a hint of bratty! I love it… And “sometimes smokes”, even better!
Awesome profile lady! Do I dare say, it
actually made me laugh once or twice?!?! I’m giving you a gold star! 8)
But, the Irish thing is just a little concerning! Lol Irish girls are t-r-o-u-b-l-e and I’m definitely trouble… Yikes, I’m scared! 8) Maybe we should just become BFF’s and save ourselves from all the drama now while there’s still a chance!
ps… chocolate or strawberries?
Strawberries dipped in chocolate, babe. Yep. Strawberries dipped in chocolate.
One of the longer emails I’ve gotten!!!
So, you want both?? Strawberries dipped in chocolate, huh? Nice answer and just a tad flirty as well… I wonder what that says about you?! Either you’re the type of woman who can’t make up her mind or your the type of woman that likes to have it all?! 8) Gonna leave my suspicions to myself for now! Lol
I’m riding into town on Wed from good ol’ NYC… I love it out here but it’s a little to cold for my blood. Ever been? We should grab a drink when I get there… And see how it goes.
Actually, I find myself more of the “…can’t make up her mind…” type. However, when it comes to strawberries and chocolate, the sensualness of both together can only lead me to a snap decision.
New York. Yes, I have been there several times.
Christmas in Manhattan with a tad bit of snow is magical. Fall is beautiful, too. In fact the last time I was there in the Fall I could see from my room at the Ritz-Carlton, the staging area for the Macy’s Day Parade balloons! Summer is hideous, but Spring is my favorite time. You can’t beat laying on the grass in Central Park on a warm Spring day….
Drinks? Now I wish we were having them in NYC, but I guess LA will do! ; )
Get ahold of me when you get here and I will either dick you around or make another snap decision….
PS Do you only have half a face?
Ahhhh, Spring in NYC is pretty amazing. I live for the days of prancing around Manhattan trying to keep out of trouble. Wish L.A. had a place like Central Park, but no rain and constant sun or an occasional walk on the grass in the Park… Tough call! Too bad you’re not here to join me for that glass of red!
And what’s this you say? You might dick me around??? Won’t that be a pleasant change?! I feel like I’ve had it way too easy for way too long! Let the dicking begin!
Will definitely be in touch when I get there. Excited to see which way your mind goes!
So, Glen, you are from Nueva York originally? That adds a whole new layer. A New York Scorpio. With only half a face….. hmmm.
Sounds like you are used to nice, calm, sensible girls. It also sounds like you have had more than a few…. You should adjust your goggles, and re- consider. When you do, and if you find the opposite of what you’ve had, bring her along with you….. ; 0
PS More pictures? Yes, more pictures……
Didn’t your mom ever warn you about native Scorpio NY’ers with just half a face?? If it makes you feel better, the other half of my face looks even better!
And me, with nice, calm, sensible gals?!?! I’m attracted to brats, who’s X’s never spanked them enough! Lol I seem to be only guy they’ve meet who knows how to put up with and handle their cute temper tantrums…
If you send over an email, I’ll send over a full face shot but NO nudes, deal???
And please tell me you’re not surronded by jocks screaming at a tv drunk and in their superbowl frenzy!
Show me the rest of you… Both literally and figuratively.
After all, I need SOMETHING to wash a Scorpion down with….
And no, no football for me yesterday. I like better food plus I had no dog in that fight.
Oh, and by the by, what do you do for a living, Glen?
Hey… Gonna be in town tomorrow! Shoot me a cute text and say hello and I’ll tell you all about what I do and don’t do! 😉
let’s see if our thumbs get along!
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Her: Nothing….. 3- days
Hey you!!! Is this the dicking around?? Lol
Anyway… Sent u my number… If you’re not breaking up with me, say hi!
Sorry, just now saw your message about my seeming silence. Did the old scroll down through all the various pieces of detritus until I struck gold.
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Me: Isn’t it past your bedtime?
Her: This wittle girl shouldbe tucked in bed with her jammies on…
Me: Dead air- I didn’t respond to her flirt because this is exactly what she is used to and was expecting. Like I said, I needed to take control of the overall frame and get her to chase and to also give her the impression that I am 100% not needy in anyway! She knew I was getting her texts and wasn’t to busy because I responded to her already.
Her: (20 mins later) problem is, she still has to finish her bottle :0
Me: (right away) “Awwwww… That’s cute, you want me to come over and burp the baby after her bottle. Sorry but I’m out with a friend!” I reframed it like she was chasing and then turned down her fictitious offer. Whether or not she was actually offering to hang at this late of an hour doesn’t matter. The fact that I turned it around and made her the pursuant immediately gave me an upper hand and also showed her what type of game I have! as I’ve told you before… No woman can win in a text war with me.
Her:(10mins later)” Hahahaha WELL PLAYED!’ for that 10mins she was desperately thinking of something witty and flirty to say in response to my text! She couldn’t! Me 1 ; her 0 hahaha
Me: (next morning at 11:45) I send her an awesome picture of myself with the message… “Good morning…Are your thumbs ready to play?” I had to send her a different picture of eventually. She had asked numerous times and it didn’t happen. I also wanted to tell her that I approved of her good behavior last nite by texting me and sending me her picture.
Her: Is it still morning? This is the start of an endless day! Playing thumbs…. Yummmm
Me: (Sent her a picture of a latte I was having and said) “This is seriously like sex in a cup. Are you getting my pictures?”
Her: Delicious!!! Oh, and the latte to.
Me: Stop… You’re making me blush. I’ve got a crazy day. Grab some rope and come kidnap me so we can go play!
her: Oh I wish! Like you wouldn’t beleive
Me: I’m glad we think alike. You owe me a kidnapping. What’s your day like?
her: Hectic. Not normally like this.. I’m usually a latte at 11am type. Like you it seems!
Me: Totally like me. Love my lazy mornings in bed under the covers! At least it’s beautiful out today.
Her: “So what affords you the luxury of 11:00 am lattes and mid day kidnappings.” Here she is looking for some more information and seeking rapport to feel comfortable to truly commit to meeting me. So, I gave her a little and was willing to give more. I know from experience that when women ask questions like this over text, it’s their way of saying to you… Hey, I’m interested in you but I’m missing some pieces to the puzzle and need just a little reassurance to meet you. I’ve learned that if you typically avoid this you will either get a flake or have a really hard time meeting up with her. I plan on doing the same with her in just a few minutes. If she’s telling me that she needs more info, I’m going to tell her the same thing and maybe qualify her a little.
Me: Nice one!!! I own 2 businesses one being a salon and currently working on becoming a computer geek. But, the geek thing is our little secret! Deal?
Her: I’m currently in a salon getting a blow-out… I bet my salon can beat up your salon.
Me: Blow-out. What a primadonna! And I’ll bet my shears are bigger than their shears… I’m kinda an undergournd guy who’s really hard to get an appointment with.
Her: I LOVE BIG SHEARS!!!!!
Me: Nice kitty…. Behave!
Her: Noboday can get an appointment because you’re serial truant
Me: lolol… A boy has got to play hard to get
Her: Oh… I can tel darling! Where do you lay that head of yours at night?
Me: If I tell you, are you gonna stalk me?
her: Only if you request
Me: Only if we keep it to 1 night a week… My others will get very protective!
Her: So, You’re an artist who’s not starving. Very refrshing.
Me; I starved for years. I’m still trying to gain the weight back! And what about you? Blow outs, younger boys and kidnapping? Do tell… ( Here is where I try to find out a little more about her. I answered her rapport question but she decided to not run with it that hard which was a little surprising. Sometimes just a little more info will be enough to make her feel good about meeting you.)
Her: I’m an enigma (BAD and BORING ANSWER TO ME…. So, I decide to punish her for bad behavior. If I’m going to ask a question and she’s going to avoid it, I’m going to let her know that it’s not ok… We were texting back and forth and she knows I’m out and about doing nothing. So, for me not to respond to her will definitely have her worried she fucked it up. I wasn’t going to respond to her until she gave me what I wanted and that is either her compliance or an answer to my question. Women do this shit to us all the time, right??? Why not do it back? It drives them crazy! They are not used to a guy calling them out and telling them that are boring and not responding to their texts… This DEAD AIR I did was the game changer and completely turned everything around and made her go crazy and chase like hell!!! I literally won this girl with what happened next! Learn from this…
Her: Oh please (25mins later)
Her: Although I do like my nap time (40 mins later)
Her: Hello (25 mins later)
Her: ? (15 mins later)
Me: ? (immediately responded to her with the question mark)
Her: I’m heading your way for a meeting. Maybe coffee? I’ll tell you anything you want to know…(5mins later)
Me: (dead air for 30mins)
Her: You can decide if I’d fit into your harem. This is where she was in obvious panic mode and scared she fucked everything up. Her only recovery was to make herself totally available to me in every way. She was going to do and say anything to win back my attention… This worked perfectly…
Me: I might have room for one more.. Coffee sounds perfect! How’s 6? ( I reward her for giving me what I want by agreeing to meet up wth her and texting back immediately. She is relieved and also she’s excited that she didn’t fuck it up with me. Now she will be the chaser for the rest of our relationship, ALL BECAUSE OF THE POWER DYNAMIC OVER THIS TEXTING… Amazing isn’t it? It was a totaly frame reversal and and she can not come back from such a loss. She submitted and realizes now and forever that if she acts bad, I will punish her by ignoring her. Ignoring a woman when she needs attention and validation is very powerful.
Her: Yay…He’s back. (8
Her: 6 is perfect
Me: Let’s meet at (coffee shop).
Me: Dress hot so we match!
Her. I’ll look hot either way!
Her: where is it?
Me: I have no idea… You’ll find it. It’s on Melrose!
her: See you in a little
Ok…. Now we’re at the cafe and it’s totally on between us. Our energy is electrically charged. We’re laughing, touching and having an amazing time… I find out at one point that she’s a multi-gazillionaire! Rich as hell. She said something to effect that she’s worth about 40million?!?!?!?!?!?! HOLY SHIT!!!!
But who cares about the money.. I’d hang with chick all the time regardless. She’s is so much fun and alive with life!
Now, the whole picture is making sense. I knew intuitively by her emails, profile, pictures and texting that this woman has a ton options when it comes to men. She’s hot and rich. This girl was telling me about all the guys who fall in love with her and text her non-stop. She’s telling me about men who want to buy her cars and fly her all over the world just to impress her. She can have whatever she wants! This is why it’s crucial to not give her what she wants when she wants it. She longs to be the chaser. She just wants a guy who’s a man both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom. She wants the man that can make her submit to his whims because more than likely she’s never had a real man that can do that to her. She’s always been in control.
After about 2hrs of laughing and coffee I suggest we go for a ride. She agrees… As we are walking, she says to me “You’re the man… (throws me her keys) you drive!”
We get to her car and it’s like some kind of Merceds Benz rocket ship. I get in and it’s fucking amaing!!! Never been in a car quite like this before.
As we’re crusing down Sunset Strip in beatfilu LA, she says. “Let’s grab some wine and go to your place.” Ummmmmmmmmmm, YESSSSS! lol
I bring her to the Pick-Up Mansion because there’s a giant movie room there with crazy shag carpet and giant bean bag pillows and it’s got a view overlooking all of LA.
When we walk in all the guys are there and they’re like WOW! I mean this woman is beautiful and obviously very well off. As soon as we get there, the guys know what’s up and they all say that they’re going to go to bed! Nice to be so obvious guys!! lol I hope you’re reading this…
When they leave, she looks at me and says that was very impressive! The fact that all these guys left us alone and split showed her that she’s with a guy who has some sort of power and that I’m very high value. I also didn’t mind taking her there because earlier I told her what I was doing with that house and why the guys are there. She found it very attractive that I coach men how to become better versions of themselves and teach them how to meet and attract women into their lives.
We watch a little TV, sip on some wine… And!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!! I had the best night I’ve had with a woman in a long time. She’s great and I’m actually seeing her agin tonight and can’t wait.
I wanted to include all the emails and texts because this was one of the best played seductions I’ve had. I had to be careful all the way thorugh. I had no room for even one mistake with lady and it payed off! I learned alot with this one. It was a true test of everything that I have learned.
Years ago, I would have NEVER been able to seduce a woman like this into my life because I didn’t know any better. I let women walk all over me and they did every chance they got. You guys have no idea how grateful I am to have finally learned to be successful with women. A true blessing.
Funny but I’m sitting in a little cafe right now writing this field report and I’m watching a guy tell some chick that she’s beautiful and that they should be Facebook friends. She’s just nodding in complete disapproaval at him and back turning him in front of everyone here. OUCH!
I feel for him. I know what he’s feeling. He’s being rejected and she doesn’t even care that it must have taken him so much courage to walk up to her and say what he’s saying. She has no idea that this guy will probably feel like shit the rest of the day. She has no regards for his feelings. Amazing at how cold women can be to a man who just wants to talk to her in the hopes of getting a date. I’d love to see her put herself out there and risk rejection and public humiliation. I’d love for her to feel embarrassed. I wish he knew about my blog. I see myself in him.
Anyway… Time to grab some lunch and meet up with some friends. But I hope you’ve enjoyed what I’ve had to say.
If you guys have any questions or comments about my emails or texts or ANYTHING for that matter… Be sure to post them and I will answer them ASAP!