Ok… I’m still new at being a blogger and posted a really long article about this topic about a week ago and sure enough.. It NEVER went up and of course wasn’t saved. So I’m gonna break it down to the bare minimum as I don’t have it in me to type it all out again! I’m sorry to all the guys who had to wait on this!
A few months ago I was working with a student who really didn’t have much A.A. but what he did have was A.H. (approach hesitation)! In other words he would approach whenever I told him to but when it cam to him doing it on his own he’d hesitate BIG TIME!
And why is this hazardous? First and formost.. STRESS! I have seen him and so many other PUA’s get so stressed when they do not approach and then finally do it and get mad at themselves when it doesn’t go so well. The approach that is. And stress has been linked to too many malady’s to name! Including HAIR LOSS!!!! OUCH!!! lol
When you hesitate you give your mind time to come up with all these excuses and get nervous as well which will almost certainly ruin any chances with a particular woman you’re after. Nervousness and anxiety is transferable, especially when it comes to the cold approach. She will sense this and chances are she’s not going to buy into you or your game!
It is vital to approach immediately when you see the girl you want. If you see it and like it.. GO and GO right then and there! You will be surprised at how much better your interactions will go when you do not hesitate!
So there it is in a nut shell. I will probably add on to this and make the post much longer as the original was. Once again sorry for any inconvenience…