You want it…. You want it so bad you can taste it….. I can smell success… I’m just around the corner from being able to seduce any girl I want…. I’M ALMOST THERE!
OR ARE YOU?
This is one of the most common stories I hear from students that I’ve had the privilege of coaching and seeing in filed… They say a cornucopia of different things to me to make me think that they are better than they really are or that if I can help them just fix this ONE problem they’ll be the next GlennP.
Hmmmm…. Maybe they are correct but more often than not they are not.
It’s always the same old story… I’m getting flakes, I’m having trouble transitioning, I am struggling with approach anxiety and when I’m not having a battle of epileptic fits of anxiety I always seal the deal with the ladies, it’s my phone game, it’s my text game, if I can just improve my fashion, etc….
Funny but when I take these guys in the field it’s almost NEVER what they claim their problem really is… Sometimes I do all their texting for them, sometimes I help them with transitioning, whatever their problem is I fix that particular problem.. ALWAYS!!!
But what I find most is that whatever they think their problem is 95% of the time it’s not what the problem really is… It is almost certainly a FUNDAMENTALS problem. Yup… There it is… I’ve coached guys who have been trying to learn pick-up for years and I’ve coached guys who have been trying to learn for months and it’s ALWAYS the same old thing. FUNDAMENTALS-FUNDAMENTALS-FUNDAMENTALS!!
What do I mean when I say fundamentals? The core basics of pick-up…
Fundamentals to me are the core structure of pick-up. Here’s a good analogy… You just bought a beautiful piece of land where you plan to build your ultimate dream home and where you’re gonna take all your ladies to and bang the shit out of them… But before you put up one 2×4, or one piece of plywood or any plumbing you NEED to build a SOLID FOUNDATION. If you don’t build a solid foundation and try nailing one piece of wood up a town inspector is gonna come by and close you down and send all the workers home and not give you any of the building permits you so desperately need to finish the job so you can start getting laid! I kinda wish pick-up had an inspector who would come by and inspect your game, (YOUR FOUNDATION i.e.. YOUR FUNDAMENTALS) before you were allowed to go on with approaching women. If there was such a thing, I promise you a lot more guys would be getting laid and getting laid A LOT! A pick-up inspector?!?! I like it… I guess that’s what I am, only I’m not gonna shut you down for business. I’m gonna be there for you and tell you what you’re doing wrong and if you don’t understand what I’m saying.. I’m going to demo for you so you can see it in action, I’m gonna tell you what you’re doing right and keep reminding you about everything until it sinks into the very depth of your subconscious mind and stays there for good and my advice to you becomes auto-pilot!
Once you have mastered your fundamentals, or for our analogies’ sake, once you have your foundation rock solid and up to code you can than start building on it and the beauty of all this is that once your house is built you can start to decorate the interior any way you wish! Think of the interior of this house as your cold approach game after you’ve mastered the fundamentals of pick-up. Your interior decorations consist of routines, kino escalation, handling cock- blocks, coming up with your own material and different ways to build sexual tension.
Am I making sense yet? This is what I used to do and still do all the time with my game. I experiment with different techniques and subtly micro-tweak my interactions with laser like precision to sleep with women as fast as possible…
So please, I beg you…. Take a look at your fundamentals (are you leaning in to read this post??? hahahaha). Observe them carefully like a hawk who’s about to ponce on a little white rabbit in a field with thigh high grass. Do NOT EVER underestimate the power of fundamentals to sky rocket your game.